Private Coaching

Sustained work for clients continuing after the Intensive. New clients start there.

Whether individually or as a couple, my approach suits people who want depth over quick fixes, appreciate intellectual rigor alongside emotional exploration, and welcome being challenged.

Previous therapy experience is helpful but not required. Clients stay for sustained developmental work as they and their relationships continue to evolve.

Focus Areas

Relationships & Communication

  • Communication challenges and repair after rupture

  • Desire discrepancies and sexual intimacy

  • Boundary work and relational structures

  • Creating strong foundations in new partnerships

  • Rediscovering connection in long-term relationships


Sexuality & Embodiment

  • Sex and sexuality education

  • Embodiment and erotic awareness

  • Talking about sex: practically and seductively

  • Fantasy, desire, and sexual boundaries

  • Shifting from pathology to possibility

  • Impacts of trauma on relationships and intimacy

Personal Growth

  • Cultivating a compassionate inner witness

  • Shifting unhelpful patterns and strategies

  • Navigating difficult emotions and experiences

  • Discovering sources of authentic joy and pleasure

  • Getting really good at being who you are


Specialized Contexts

  • Consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, kink

  • LGBTQ+ relationships and identity

  • Cross-cultural relationships

  • Addiction and disordered behaviors

  • Postpartum intimacy and sexuality

  • Parenting and family dynamics

  • Loss, grief, and major life transitions

  • Purpose and meaning in work and creative life

How I Work

Much of who we are is shaped by our early and formative experiences. We develop strategies to get our needs for connection and survival met, often internalizing beliefs about ourselves, the world, and other people that no longer serve. These relational strategies and implicit beliefs become automatic and unconscious. What were once brilliant adaptations for survival can block access to joy and connection in our current lives.

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Make the Unconscious Conscious: Shifting patterns that no longer serve starts with compassionate attention to automatic behaviors. With awareness and new relational experiences, we can navigate life with less reactivity and more agency.

Skills-Based Approach: I offer expert guidance in developing relational capacity and skill while honoring the healing process that makes lasting change possible.

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I bring my full humanity, sharing genuine responses and lived experience in support of your work.

Information & Investment

Private Coaching

Individual—$275 per hour
Couples—$450 per 90-minute session

Format: In-person or online
Frequency: Every other week

Ongoing coaching begins after the Relational Literacy Intensive.