Everything in this series builds to this session. The truth is, most intimate conversations aren't rational — they're emotional. And poorly executed.

Rationality, tone of voice, verbal precision — none of that matters if the content of what we're saying is still mean, manipulative, or placating. Developed over 15 years of practice, The Rules of Engagement is a framework for moving through conflict, repairing after rupture, and expressing vulnerability — our needs, desires, and limits. In this session we practice the building blocks of emotion-centered communication.

Relational conversations don't need to be effective. They need to be connecting, reparative, capable of generating empathy and real understanding.

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This session is part of The Pleasure Ethic Conversations, a four-part cohort series on Relational Literacy.

Spring 2026 Cohort:
Saturdays 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM
March 28 · April 11 · April 25 · May 9
In-person in Oakland. Max 10 participants.

Sliding scale pricing for the full series: $300 / $475 / $625

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